How to have threesome sex

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Coupes & singles can make their threesome fantasies a reality

Are you ready to strip down for your first time threesome; or you want to explore your sexuality with a bi threesome for your bisexual wife or bi husband; or perhaps you're a pansexual couple who don't care about gender but just want to find sexy friends for hot threesome fun? Join Adult Match Maker and we'll show you how to have threesome sex and make your threesome fantasy a reality!

Having a threesome is hot and Adult Match Maker's Under the Covers survey found that 77% of men surveyed and 72% of women fantasised about having sex with multiple partners. Adult Match Maker is one of the largest free adult dating websites where members can hook up for threesomes, foursomes or even moresomes! We have swinger couples looking for women for bisexual FFM threesomes, MFM threesomes and even more naughty combinations. Working out where all the body bits go can be fun but somewhat confusing so our resident sexpert Eva Sless suggests checking out the Double Blow Job sex position – every man's fantasy – and Spit Roast – the most popular MFM position for double the pleasure in her article The Top 10 Sex Positions for Threesomes.

How do you find a sex threesome?

When you join Adult Match Maker you are asked what you're looking for. You can tick threesomes and then choose the combinations you enjoy, or want to experience. And the order does matter! An FFM threesome indicates a bi female whilst MMF indicates a bi male. For bisexual swingers it's the best of both worlds. Of course you can also nominate that you are "heteroflexible" which means you're not necessarily bisexual but you know that touching another man's penis during a threesome does not make you gay … and you're cool with it.

Of course the sexperts on our Sex & Relationship Blog also offer advice on the single man's guide to shagging a couple, advice for our first threesome, and what you need to know about having a threesome.

What is a unicorn?

A unicorn is the most elusive creature in both the threesome sex scenario and the swing lifestyle. It's a single woman, most often bisexual, who is happy to play alone with couples. In fact if you're a female who loves sex, swingers are a girl's best friend. So if your female partner desires the sensuous touch of a woman in your wife threesome fantasy then go forth and find that elusive female unicorn but always be mindful of how rare and precious they are.

Read threesome sex stories

Our members write about their threesome experiences in our erotica section under Threesomes & Moresomes where you can read true stories of threesome hookups and threesome erotica to help you fulfill your own threesome fantasies.

Testimonials from Adult Match Maker members about their threesomes

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"Me and my hubby have met some amazing girls through this site!"

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"We have some great regular playmates thanks to Adult Match Maker."

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Blog articles about Threesomes
Have you had a threesome?

Australians are very receptive to having a threesome with 28% claiming to have had one and 20% wanting to have one. So is a threesome on your sexual bucket list?

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Top 10 Sex Positions for Threesomes

Threesomes can be a bit tricky, and part of that trickiness can be figuring out where all the extra body bits go. So here are our Top 10 sex positions for both FFM and MMF threesomes.

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So you want to have a threesome! What you need to know.

We break down some the barriers and offer some hints and tips to make your first threesome experience a mutually fun and enjoyable one for everyone involved.

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Threesomes with Friends

Inviting a friend into the bedroom for a threesome can be a great way to expand your playmate circle but it can also be a big mistake. So how do you avoid it all turning bad?

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