Emma started out as a YouTube Sexpert seeking to entertain and inform. When the questions got serious Emma decided to take it seriously too. So she went back to university to complete a Bachelor of Psychology (Hons) and a Masters of Social Work.
Now she is writing full time and can be found either writing for us or over on her blog; Fuck, A Love Story, a cautionary tale about choosing the mad, pommy actor, every time.
Articles by Emma Sachsse
Unpacking your Emotional BaggageEmma Sachsse - 24 May 2021 5 comments
When sizing up a new sexual partner or romantic interest, a typical 'deal-breaker' is 'emotional baggage'. Emotional baggage can take on many forms and everyone has it, even you!
Your Personality Predicted your Pandemic ResponseEmma Sachsse - 1 April 2021 1 comment
As we look back over the last 12 months spent living in the midst of a pandemic, how did your personality type affect you? Our resident psychology expert broke it down for us.
The Reality of the Sex RecessionEmma Sachsse - 11 December 2020 1 comment
Are Millennials having more sex, less sex, more meaningful sex or are they just looking for love? Forget about the headlines, we've got the research with the answers.
The Myth of the Orgasm GapEmma Sachsse - 10 September 2020 9 comments
The “Orgasm Gap” is widely written about but does it actually exist? We asked Emma Sachsse, our resident psychology expert, to do some research and she found there are some myths surrounding it.
Sex in isolation and how it affects you!Emma Sachsse - 28 March 2020 7 comments
These are anxiety inducing times and each of you will be in a unique situation. So how do you not only cope with sex or lack thereof in a time of self-isolation but look after yourself physically and mentally.
Why men & women have different sexual regretsEmma Sachsse - 16 February 2020 25 comments
In a utopian world none of us would regret our informed consensual sexual encounters. But research shows that when it comes to sexual regrets men and women can have very different views about casual sex.
The Lying, Cheating and Deception of an AffairEmma Sachsse - 14 November 2019 24 comments
When it comes to the lying, cheating and deception of an affair who should we blame? And can we change how it feels to be the victim of infidelity?
Amazing sex can shift our relationship boundariesEmma Sachsse - 25 September 2019 15 comments
Why do normally sane, well-reasoned, intelligent people put up with shit you wouldn’t normally tolerate when you sleep with someone and the sex is thigh wettingly fantastic? How does sex shift our relationship boundaries?
Small Dicks & Why You Should Fuck On The First DateEmma Sachsse - 21 May 2019 39 comments
There is nothing wrong with a small penis. I have had lovers with below average cocks who have had above average skills. But there are some things which should be revealed before the pants come off.
There’s nothing sinful about lust!Emma Sachsse - 6 January 2019 15 comments
The idea of lust as evil is a pretty old concept, it is after all one of the seven deadly sins. I think we should stop looking at lust as something that is naughty and instead enjoy this powerful sexy feeling and revel in the way it makes your body feel.