Bio
Miss Smut Buttons is an adult industry alumna, who worked her way up from lowly splooge mopper to empress of the internet.
She has worked in brothels, strip clubs, porn studios and sex toy stores. She's worked with magazines, political parties and lobby groups. She's managed to make it halfway across the world to work with OMGYES and back again to make guest appearances on a number of panels discussing sex, relationships and LGBTIQA+ issues. And somewhere in the midst of all of this she still managed to find time to have several nervous breakdowns! She's committed to a life that includes depression, anxiety and borderline personality disorder purely so she can provide a better insight on the intersection of mental health and sexual relations (you're welcome).
But after hobnobbing with all the sexiest kids in the Australian Adult Industry (and visiting all the nicest mental health facilities) all she wants to do now is sit down with a cup of tea and a crumpet and talk smut with you.
Articles by Miss Smut Buttons
The Bisexual Bias
As a bisexual woman, my experiences are very different to those of bisexual men. And that’s something we don’t talk about nearly as often as we should! So let’s talk about the bisexual bias.
What is Toxic Monogamy?
Monogamy isn't inherently more or less toxic than any other relationship style but the term toxic monogamy refers to the parts that can be unhealthy or harmful. Miss Smut Buttons explains …
What is love bombing and why do they do it?
You might not be familiar with what love bombing looks like but if you’re planning on dating in this day and age, it’s an important concept to be aware of in order to keep yourself safe.
Is Non-Monogamy just Sleeping Around?
It’s easy for people to confuse the idea of fucking around with ethical non-monogamy. But are they the same thing? It’s a little more complicated than you might think.
What is Jealousy?
Jealousy is the label we use when something we have is threatened by someone else, but using this label can stop us from understanding what we’re really feeling. So, what is jealousy?
What’s the Deal with Unicorn Hunting?
Unicorn hunting can be a playful and fun time for everyone involved or it can be a problematic way of reducing a woman to a sex object. Unicorns are magical, but they’re also people first and foremost.
What are the different types of Polyam Relationships?
There’s no one way to do polyamory. Miss Smut Buttons explains there are many different polyam relationship structures and each of them appeal to different people for different reasons.
Redefine your relationships with Relationship Anarchy
Relationship anarchy is a fairly new concept – so what’s it all about? Here’s how to embrace relationship anarchy and redefine all of your relationships, not just with your intimate partners.
Polyamory in Public
For many people in polyamorous relationships being open in public comes with a myriad of risks. This is why some polyamorous people may decide not to practice polyam in public.
Conversations you need to have in Polyamorous Relationships
Polyamorous relationships require more communication than a monogamous relationship, because there’s so much more going on. If you are polyam then communication is crucial.