Bio
Miss Smut Buttons is an adult industry alumna, who worked her way up from lowly splooge mopper to empress of the internet.
She has worked in brothels, strip clubs, porn studios and sex toy stores. She's worked with magazines, political parties and lobby groups. She's managed to make it halfway across the world to work with OMGYES and back again to make guest appearances on a number of panels discussing sex, relationships and LGBTIQA+ issues. And somewhere in the midst of all of this she still managed to find time to have several nervous breakdowns! She's committed to a life that includes depression, anxiety and borderline personality disorder purely so she can provide a better insight on the intersection of mental health and sexual relations (you're welcome).
But after hobnobbing with all the sexiest kids in the Australian Adult Industry (and visiting all the nicest mental health facilities) all she wants to do now is sit down with a cup of tea and a crumpet and talk smut with you.
Articles by Miss Smut Buttons
What is Jealousy?
Miss Smut Buttons - 2 February 2023 3 commentsJealousy is the label we use when something we have is threatened by someone else, but using this label can stop us from understanding what we’re really feeling. So, what is jealousy?
What’s the Deal with Unicorn Hunting?
Miss Smut Buttons - 22 December 2022 15 commentsUnicorn hunting can be a playful and fun time for everyone involved or it can be a problematic way of reducing a woman to a sex object. Unicorns are magical, but they’re also people first and foremost.
What are the different types of Polyam Relationships?
Miss Smut Buttons - 11 September 2022 9 commentsThere’s no one way to do polyamory. Miss Smut Buttons explains there are many different polyam relationship structures and each of them appeal to different people for different reasons.
Redefine your relationships with Relationship Anarchy
Miss Smut Buttons - 20 April 2022 7 commentsRelationship anarchy is a fairly new concept – so what’s it all about? Here’s how to embrace relationship anarchy and redefine all of your relationships, not just with your intimate partners.
Polyamory in Public
Miss Smut Buttons - 25 January 2022 10 commentsFor many people in polyamorous relationships being open in public comes with a myriad of risks. This is why some polyamorous people may decide not to practice polyam in public.
Conversations you need to have in Polyamorous Relationships
Miss Smut Buttons - 19 November 2021 5 commentsPolyamorous relationships require more communication than a monogamous relationship, because there’s so much more going on. If you are polyam then communication is crucial.
Focus on Boundaries not Rules in Polyamorous Relationships
Miss Smut Buttons - 25 September 2021 8 commentsWhen it comes to polyamory, a lot of people have very strong opinions on the difference between ‘boundaries’ and ‘rules’ within relationships. But understanding why people see ‘rules’ as a bit of a red flag could help you build healthier relationships.
Things to consider before trying Polyamory
Miss Smut Buttons - 1 July 2021 5 commentsSo, you’ve established that you’re curious about polyamory. Great first step! What things do you need to consider before trying polyamory to see if it’s for you?
Is a Poly Relationship right for you?
Miss Smut Buttons - 6 May 2021 12 commentsPolyamory has been experiencing something of a ‘moment’ recently but here are some things which usually end up being deal breakers for people who try polyamory without being fully informed first.
A Beginner's Guide to Consensual Non-Monogamy
Miss Smut Buttons - 18 March 2021 8 commentsFind out all about consensual non-monogamy, what it means, and the different ways people are practicing it through polyamory, monogamish, and more!