Holly Hill lives by her motto “Never trust an unpromiscuous sex writer”. Her phrase “negotiated infidelity’ has become the buzz phrase of a new age philosophy where sexual urges require honest conversations rather than cold showers. Holly’s books Sugarbabe and Toyboy received massive media exposure especially in July 2010 when Sugarbabe was released in the US. Holly has appeared on Larry King Live, Fox News, CNN, National Geographic “Taboo,” 60 Minutes and Dr.Phil. On a professional level Holly has a BA in psychology and has received critical acclaim for her novels. Holly lives in Sydney and regularly attends swinger, fetish and adult club nights. Holly and her partners actively practice negotiated infidelity, which means seeing other people within a strict set of rules.
I often get asked in interviews how I deal with jealousy whilst negotiating infidelity. Compare a love where jealousy is acceptable to a love that replaces it with generosity. Which love would you rather have?
If you are in a long-term relationship, chances are you are running about average! If you introduce a little friendly competition into the mix, large holes of ‘us’ time might suddenly start appearing in your diaries.
This contract is about discussing everything at the start of relationships, rather than when things turn pear-shaped. We often end up investing half of everything we own in our spouse and it's important to understand our partner's expectations.
Holly let's us in on a little secret - there is a way of ensuring he will call you after a one-night-stand.
The number one thing that most guys seem to forget is that most girls need their clit stimulated to achieve an orgasm. Holly sets out some easy lessons ... homework has never been so much fun.
Holly lets you into some secrets from a workshop she attended called “Blow his mind” which was run by the Scarlet Alliance. Share these tips tonight – it might be the most empowering thing you ever did.
There are some surprising men’s explanations of what testosterone does to them and the influence it has on their genitals. I believe them. (After all, someone had to think up all the jokes). These are their tales.
So there are a range of toys out there that stimulates clits at the same time as our partner fucks us. They are relatively inexpensive and are just about guaranteed to have you initiating sex, not him.
Traditionally, female sluts are admired by men and loathed by women, and male sluts are loathed by women and admired by men. Yet a change is occurring and we are beginning to relish just how good a clitoris can make you feel.
Imagine her lying in your bed, damp hair askew and begging you to fuck her again. Sounds more fairy tale than fantasy, doesn’t it? Not any more.