Religion has a lot to answer for when it comes to the hang-ups people have around sex, sexuality and relationships. But how valid are some of the things people are taught to believe, and is there an alternate view we can consider?

This contract is about discussing everything at the start of relationships, rather than when things turn pear-shaped. We often end up investing half of everything we own in our spouse and it's important to understand our partner's expectations.

For some couples swinging is just a game they get to play. But if your social calendar and catching up with vanilla friends is scheduled around swinging events then perhaps it's become your way of life.

Is your partner falling for someone else more likely to happen in the swinging world? Not necessarily. Remember swingers can “have their cake and eat it too”.

How safe is swinging? Are there risks? And when it comes to your relationship, is it safe in the swinging scene?

There are multiple ways to satisfy your swinging appetite and if you haven’t tried private parties, clubs or events, then you should. You just never know what you might be missing!

Our resident swing lifestyle expert visited one of Melbourne's sexiest swingers parties - The Monkey Club - and wants to tell you about the luscious venue, play areas and fun she and her partner had.

ThePussyKats is night for swinging couples and select singles (guys and gals) to meet in a very classy environment in Melbourne for mingling and ongoing fun, for those who want to join in.

Our swing lifestyle expert was surprised by an anecdote written by Dr John Gray where he described an encounter with a rather bold lady who gave him an indecent proposal. Was he considering swinging!

We tend to compare ourselves to what we see on the x-rated screen and it can have a big impact on a person’s confidence and subsequent willingness to get into the swing lifestyle. So do I have to be like a porn star in the bedroom?