A Beginner’s Guide to Cock Worship
Eva Sless
on 15 August 2025
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Before we get down to business, let me just start by saying this: Cock worship is not just giving a blog job with good manners and a polite smile. It’s not just “going down” while thinking about your to-do list or what’s for dinner. And it’s also not really about submissiveness (though it can be) or some performative porn routine, unless, of course, that’s the vibe you’re both going for.
No. Cock worship is something else entirely. It’s sensual. It’s intentional. It’s erotic mindfulness with a strong splash of admiration and play. It’s treating a cock like it’s a work of art. Not because it’s better or more important than any other body part, but because in this moment, in this space, it is the centrepiece of attention and affection, and honestly, who doesn't want to feel needed and adored like that every once in a while?
So what is Cock Worship?
Let’s break it down. At its core, cock worship is a sexy, intimate ritual where you (the worshipper) give focused, loving, reverent attention to someone’s cock (the worshipped).
It’s about slowing down and really enjoying the experience. It's about taking the time and patience to adore, cherish, and savour... It's not just rushing down the finish line to orgasm, or following some routine script... It’s about savouring the whole act, from grow to woah.
Cock worshipping isn't just limited to blow jobs either. Sure, sucking and licking and tasting is one part of the buffet, but it's not just about the mouth. Cock Worship is more than that. It's part physical, part mental, and entirely about pleasure and presence. So in saying that, cock worship can, and should, also include things like:
- Light kissing or licking around the shaft, head, and balls
- Breathing warm air over sensitive skin
- Gentle stroking, squeezing, cupping, holding
- Making extended, filthy, or loving eye contact with its owner while you explore
- Looking. Admiring. Speaking to it... Seriously, trust me. Verbal appreciation of size, shape, scent, texture, whatever you genuinely enjoy, will absolutely be well received and adds to the overall sense of adoration.
What makes it “Worship”?
Well, to be honest, the clue is in the name. Worship. Adoration. Devotion. It’s all about intention.
You’re not just doing something to a cock, you’re paying attention to it. Honouring it. Celebrating it. Loving it. You’re giving your time, focus, hands, tongue, breath, eyes - and possibly your soul, depending on how into it you are - to say, “You are beautiful, wanted, cherished, and worthy of devotion.”
Yeah, that might sound a little OTT, but trust me - when done right, cock worship can feel almost meditative. For both the worshipper and the worshipped. It’s not about chasing a result and making it to the finish line. It’s about being with the body in front of you, heart and soul.
It's noticing the small changes - how the skin responds, how it twitches and flexes under your touch. How his breathing changes. How he moves.
You’re not multi-tasking here. You’re single-tasking like a goddamn sensual succubus on a mission from God.
It's all about attitude
I'm going to be blunt here. lf you approach cock worship like it's some sort of chore, then it will feel like one. If you’re doing it out of obligation, resentment, or performative expectation, then honestly? Just don’t. It isn't worth either of your time and he deserves better. And by that I mean he deserves your truth.
But if you want to be there... If you’re doing it because you like their cock, and, more importantly, you want to make them feel amazing, then go all in. Be bold. Be hungry. Be sweet. Be totally and utterly filthy.
Say the dirty things. Whisper the praises. Kiss it. Lick it. Talk to it. Make it sensual and slow one moment, then go hard and rough the next. Drizzle your dribble all over it. Be sloppy and slurpy. Be the Goddess of gobble. Let your desire guide you, and his enjoyment encourage you. Laugh and giggle when it sounds a bit silly... But always love every single moment of the time you have with it.
Tips and Tricks for worshipping well
While yes, your mouth is important, like I said above, it's not all you need for worshipping his idol. Use your hands. Stroke, hold, tease. Rub up. Rub down. Squeeze and tease.
Compliment it. “Mmm your cock is so pretty.” “God, I love the way it smells.” “You’re throbbing for me, I love that.” Seriously, you can’t go wrong with a little appreciation. It doesn’t have to be Shakespeare. You don't have to be a poet. Just appreciate it and use your words.
Breathe it in. Sometimes just breathing over it softly, or taking your time between touches, can be more powerful than anything. Anticipation is your secret weapon.
Eye contact. You don’t need to do the porn star stare-down, but glancing up now and then can be incredibly intimate, especially in those anticipation moments between touches.
Involve other areas. This is super important. The balls, the perineum, his inner thighs, the lower belly. Even his Gspot if he's into that (and seriously, all men should be). They’re all part of the experience. Worship the whole temple, not just the altar. Pay homage to all his glory.
Cock Worship does not equal submission (unless you want it to)
I think this is a really important point to bring up. Cock worship doesn’t have to mean submissiveness. Sure, it can be part of a Dom/sub dynamic, but it doesn’t have to be. You can be the most dominant of women and still adore cock. It can even BE an act of domination. When it comes to cock worship you can be everything and anything you and he want you to be. You can be soft and nurturing, or commanding and teasing or a little bit of both swapping over and under like your hands and tongue should be.
Cock worship is about connection - not about power, unless, like any sort of sex, that’s part of your play.
And remember... it goes both ways. Just like pussy worship, and what you as the receiver wants to get out of it, cock worship is about intentional, joyful, focused pleasure.
It’s not about who’s better or more deserving. It’s about the joy of slowing down, tuning in, and making someone feel seen, wanted, and gloriously turned on.
So the next time you’ve got a cock in your hands, your mouth, or your line of sight, take a breath, take your time, and give it a little praise.
It’s not just a dick. It’s a divine experience.
Until next time, happy worshipping, my friends.
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