Help! My boyfriend still has nude photos of his ex!

Depends on where he puts them. If they are in a boa and locked up, don’t worry. That’s history. But if that’s in his phone.m and he looks at them often, well, you know.
However, everyone is different. Only you know how he treats you.

Com take some with me and see what he thinks gorgeliscious!

Get rid of him hon, if he's still has those photo's, then he still appears to me that he still want her

Hey girl ..enjoy that he is with you ..might be he is using her downside against your upside ..who knows ...if you snooped you have her number ..invite her over ...if guilty he will go soft ..if not it could be a very hot nite ...for you and her ...the guy only gets one go ..lol

Maybe he prefers her nude pics over yours ?, maybe you need to take some :), who cares, she’s an EX, acting insecure etc won’t get you far :(

Why are you snooping in the first place?

If you want him to see that you are jealous and insecure of a few old pictures - go ahead and confront him .... odds are you won't be in that relationship for much longer.

We all have history and that's exactly what it is - history ...

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  Account Closed

  More than a month ago

  I wouldn’t check someone’s phone but if she found these I guess she might think he’s not over it, if you were insecure that’s exactly what you would think.

There's an app called 'Photo Vault' for your phone. Needs a password to access. Great way to store pics and vids which I do of my ex's and old female friends for those occasions when I like to reminisce.
Stops the embarrassing situations when showing your 'other friends' you holiday, new car, family snaps that are being shared in the same folders as your spread, pussy, headjob, public flashing pics of years gone by !!!!!

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  AMM.Editor

  More than a month ago

  We suggested a vault app in this article

The reason my last relationship failed was because she snooped.
She found nothing but the fact the she needed to snoop for no reason what so ever was enough of a trust breaker for me to conclude that nothing good will come out of this relationship.
Girls dont snoop.
If u have trust issues discuss it with your partner and together work through it.
As its been stated nothing good will come out of snooping

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  Account Closed

  More than a month ago

  In my experience the snooping was a bad sign and I only wished I’d had the strength to walk away instead of listening to him crap on about trust. Trust was lost for a reason and it has to be earned again. It’s not just given....ever

ugh.… sounds like this piece was lifted straight out of 'Dolly Doctor'!

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  AMM.Editor

  More than a month ago

  Keep in mind that these are questions which actual members have submitted.

How dare she or he snoop !!
If you snoop you’ll find something you don’t like cause you’re the untrustworthy one placing your insecurity on the other.
Grrrr

WOW!! Don't go through his old Facebook pics, you'll have a heart attack! That shit is there for ever. I'm still tagged in ex's photos from the past and aren't even friends anymore on Facebook. Life's to short to be bitter. Move on.

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  allinmymind

  More than a month ago

  You have the option to untag facebook photos.

Women do the same, at least this woman does. It's a symbol of great memories, not a declaration that you're not devoted to your current partner, hence the word current. Snooping in his phone was SUPER not cool. No trust, no solid foundation for everything else that a relationship exists upon.

Why were you looking in his phone? Obviously not with his permission... if it’s because you felt something wasn’t right and you were suspicious of him then good you might have caught him out - your relationship is in trouble and you are very naive...

Meh - she's an ex (although if she's hot I wouldn't mind a look). Jealousy and possessiveness have no place in a relationship!

I totally agree with Aimee. I now make one big, bold rule in my relationships "there is no hacking into my phone! If you are caught it is an instant breakup". If you ask your boyfriend about these pics he will instantly step back and question the trust levels of this relationship. Do you want to take that risk? My advice is "no"

Love this article.... wish my ex had of had th opportunity to read this before she wigged out and went off the deepend about rubbish issues from years ago

Should of deleted them problem solved

A lack of trust and insecurity on her part.

Maybe you could find out the true state of your relationship by google imaging a nude pic of a bloke and putting it in your camera roll. Im guessing you would soon find out if he is snooping on your phone... lol.
And even if he is still wanking off to her pic.. it is over with her and im sure he enjoys sex with you still. Blokes wank off to pics and vids of other women all the time.. i got over it years ago.. doesnt mean he loves you any less.

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  More than a month ago

  Yeah we do ; so true.
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  triXXXi66

  More than a month ago

  Exactlt right Jay.. and any bloke who says he doesn’t is a liar... or dead!

Well shouldn't have been looking at his phone in the first place . Shows how little trust she had in her boyfriend in the first place. Relaionships need to have trust ; without trust a relationship is doomed to fail and it cuts both ways.You have to be able to trust each other !
One thing woman forget so easily is its in a man's nature for him to wonder with his eyes. Start accusing your man of still having hots for an ex ; show that you don't trust him ; he begins to wonder why he bothers being faithful ! Then that wondering eyes on other women can turn into something more ! Yes its in our nature to check women out and it dates way back to when we would look for a suitable mate to propergate the species. I will garentee that Cave man did not always have one partner for life.

Great advice

Stop snooping.
You are in the wrong not your boyfriend

I have a few 'random moments' nude photos of an ex in a photo box in the cupboard (we were together before smartphones/digital cameras - but Polaroids existed lol) which will always be for my eyes only...including one I will never throw away no matter if anyone wants me to, of a hilarious shot taken one Easter. I keep them not because I'm wanting to keep the memory alive in my current life, or be with him/lust after him still...but simply as for other photos in that box, they are a snapshot of my life and happy moments/memories during it.
While I can understand the shock of the discovery (putting aside the breach of privacy of how they were found in the first place!)...we all have a past..it doesnt mean we want to go back to it.

Yeah she's right move on. These pics are from a time in his life before he met you. You can't just delete the the relationship he had with his ex, it's a part of him. You are the next stage of his life now, the current scene in his life story, so make it a good one.
Us men are visual creatures so I suggest you make the time and effort to get dressed up in your fantasy wear and create some new mementos together.

Men look at women, even when they are loved up, men look, because it’s in their nature. Most of us are visual creatures.
Monogamy is not the natural state for men, just one thrust upon us. He looks at other women? Big deal. Get a grip of those silly insecurities and wise up tbh.

If you found pics of his ex it’s likely he just didn’t delete them, but remember at one time he was red hot for her. They may just be a fond memory. He’s with you now....

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  qick-e

  More than a month ago

  i have some hard copies of naked pics of an old flame , i love them and look at them on a regular basis ,,
  it reminds me of some good times from the past ,
  snooping is a no no for me ,,
  perhaps if she asked if he had such material he may have told her ,,
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  Account Closed

  More than a month ago

  Agreed, I know men I’ve known still have pics I’ve sent, who knows why but they do ;),